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Pattaya Game and Manchester Five Year Con

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    My name is Kurt and I’m from Germany. I’m 43 years old. I’m living in a suburb of Frankfurt. I work as a controller for several hospitals doing mostly financial and cash flow reports for management. I’m not rich I have a small house and I’m making decent money. I am six feet tall and I keep myself physically in good shape because I go at least four times a week to the gym.

    At the age of 30 I started dating a girl who worked as a flight stewardess for Lufthansa Airlines and she did mostly domestic flights. She was 27 and indeed very attractive with long blonde hair blue eyes and a perfect body. She became my girlfriend and two years later we got married. We had six wonderful years but then the relationship became bitter. Unfortunately in our last year as a couple the relationship turned really toxic so we split up and we got divorced. We never met again.

    It was in the summer of 2017 and I was planning my first holiday trip as a single man. I’d never been on a vacation by myself. I was looking at the Hard Rock Hotel in Ibiza but to be honest just thinking about the fact that I would have to sit at a table in a restaurant by myself and lonely yet surrounded by happy couples and party people was a complete nightmare for me.

    I made the decision to go to Thailand to the Land of Smiles and of course straight to Pattaya which I had read about. At that time I had really no clue what I was expecting to find in Pattaya only from what I’d read. But I can tell you this it was the best idea I’ve ever had and pretty soon I was bitten by the Thailand bug.

    Newbie Mistakes

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    My recent trip to Thailand was in August and lasted for four weeks. Of course on my first trip to Pattaya I had to face all those mistakes that a newbie would encounter even after watching lots of videos on YouTube. To start with I was paying for drinks I never had followed by the taxi scams and let’s not forget about taking a drop dead gorgeous lady to my hotel room for a few games of Connect Four who actually turned out to be a ladyboy. I was robbed on Walking Street while drunk. I took another girl to my room who was this time a real girl but turned out to be a drama queen who needed money for her terminally ill mother up in Isaan.

    At a pool party I met a real nice person from London. His name was Tim. He was an artist and a musician who used to work several years for Phil Collins as a backup in the studio. He was also a long term visitor of Thailand‘s shores and he gave me good advice on how to be very careful about Thailand’s wildest daughters. He told me that these beauties with long dark hair tan skin and always perfect teeth can be so manipulative selling fake love that can easily turn into a game of playing with fire. Even experienced long time Thailand expats could sometimes not resist their magical charms. I should never ever say ‘Never this will not happen to me.’

    Meeting Siri Corn

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    I had booked a room at the C Plus Hotel a four star hotel which is on Second Road. It has a big swimming pool on the roof which was absolutely great. I was really relaxed and enjoyed my time there. Unlike a lot of visitors to Pattaya I didn’t feel the need to constantly chase girls.

    I still remember it was my 11th night in Pattaya. I was heading along Walking Street it was already past midnight when I went into the famous Ibar a club on Walking Street. There are always attractive gorgeous women at this club mostly freelancers or bar girls who have finished their shift and are still looking for customers to make some extra money.

    I ordered a small Tiger Beer it cost 180 Baht. Wow expensive. Anyway I moved over onto a table and just watched the girls dancing and standing around for some reason.

    Then it happened. I spotted a girl who looked absolutely gorgeous. My mouth was wide open when I saw her. She was wearing a tight orange colored dress with black writing on it Gucci. To me that dress looked like it had been made for her. She was also wearing over the knee boots and man I tell you they looked unbelievably sexy. She had a perfect face and perfect body. She had long black hair. What a stunning Thai beauty I thought.

    At that moment she looked over at me and started smiling. Compared to an average Thai girl she was tall and she was also not that skinny her body was curvy and well proportioned. I was a bit worried that she could be a ladyboy again because she was tall but no this was a real woman.

    I saw that more men had acknowledged her and her beauty. There was really no time to hesitate and I quickly walked over to her and introduced myself. My opening line was ‘You are the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen.’ She started laughing and said ‘Thank you.’ I replied that she should call her mum right away and say thank you to her because she had given birth to such a stunning beauty. She started laughing again and said that I was a real crazy man.

    Siri Corns Red Flags

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    We were chatting for some time. Her name was Siri Corn and she was 28. She was divorced from her Thai husband. She was a single mum and her son was already six. She was calm relaxed and had no lack of any self confidence. I realized soon that she was a professional freelancer with plenty of experience of how to deal with foreign men. Her English was quite good so that was my first red flag. She was a type of woman that knew how to push the right buttons and get men to do what she wanted them to do. I realized that any man who fell in love with this beauty would get completely ripped off by her. She was definitely the kind of girl that would drain you of your assets and when you had nothing left to offer she would simply move on to her next victim.

    You could tell she was just such a professional with lots of experience.

    But on the other hand she was a real stunner. How could any man resist spending time with this goddess?

    The Proposition

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    She said to me ‘Grab your drink and join me at our table.’ I started telling her that I’m not a rich person and if she was looking for some kind of rich sugar daddy then I would obviously not be the right person to fill that job. I told her that this was my fourth trip to Thailand and that I had already met some nice and attractive girls most of them were only looking for some kind of a sponsor to send money over to them on a monthly basis and I would have no interest at all in this kind of business.

    To my surprise she started smiling and said ‘I’m not looking for a sponsor. I’m looking for somebody and I’m not looking for somebody to send money to me each month. But later I’d like to accompany you to your hotel room but obviously you would have to tip me for spending my time with you.’

    I replied that there’s nothing more that I would love in this world than for her to come back with me to my hotel and join me for some aerobics. I asked if 3000 Baht would be a big enough tip. She immediately replied that 4000 Baht would be better grinning from ear to ear.

    I was trying to impress her and showed her a photograph of me and my Italian sports car a black Lamborghini with scissor doors but somehow it seemed not to impress her. I guess many guys show these girls fake photographs all the time claiming to have this or that when actually they don’t have nothing. Much later she told me that she sent the photo to her son because he was a real big fan of the brand Lamborghini. I never told Siri Corn that the Lamborghini was already 15 years old when I acquired the car sometime later.

    It was already dawn. We both went to the Bali Hai Pier at the end of Walking Street just to watch the sea and the waves which were coming in. I took plenty of photos of her to reminisce. I told her about my former life and explained why my relationship with my wife became so bad. She also told me about her marriage with her Thai husband and told me that he was always cheating on her. Apparently he also did a lot of drinking and gambling and never really took care of her son which was the main reason why they both split up. She actually started to open up quite a lot. She told me about the village where she comes from in Isaan. She showed me photographs on her phone.

    She also told me that she has two brothers and two sisters both of her sisters are freelancers in Phuket.

    Siri Corn Opens Up

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    She was very open minded and worldly and I could basically speak to her about whatever I wanted to. She was really great to talk to and I enjoyed her time. The aerobics were also fantastic.

    The Holiday Arrangement

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    I asked her if she’d like to spend the rest of my holiday with me. She said ‘Yes of course I will but there’ll be no discount. You’ll have to pay me 4000 Baht a day because I’m popular.’ She made this very clear while once again smiling that alluring smile from ear to ear. She knew her worth.

    I totally understand that this was nothing more than a financial transaction that would suit both of us. I would spend the rest of my holiday with a beautiful Thai girl and she would make decent money. I thought at this point that the three day rule doesn’t really matter because I know what this is all about and I understand it’s not a relationship it’s a business. Fair enough right?

    The following days we took a trip to Ko Lan Island and we visited Buddha Hill and of course we also visited the Sanctuary of Truth. She seemed to also enjoy herself. We spent some time in the hotel bar and at the hotel swimming pool relaxing. She always had a nice smile about her.

    While relaxing at the pool one day she told me that she’d been saving up for her dream motorbike a Honda 300cc sport. I could really imagine how sexy she would look on that bike. She said that she’d already saved more than 200000 Baht during the last two years and it would take less than a year to make her dream come true. She came across as genuine when she told me this. She went on to tell me that she had two permanent sponsors at the moment one from the United States and the other from Australia.

    I knew the day I had to leave Thailand would not be the easiest day for me but I was absolutely positive that I would not leave Thailand with a broken heart but moreover with all kinds of wonderful memories of this girl.

    At this moment in time little did I know that my world would soon turn upside down.

    The Disappearance

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    It came to day 27 of my holiday. The night before Siri Corn and I had been at another club until early morning. The bedroom aerobics was still great and we had just finished breakfast at my hotel. As I did every morning I paid Siri Corn her 4000 Baht. At about 12 o’clock she made her way back to her room and I was going to the pool for a swim. She took a motorbike taxi at the entrance of my hotel and drove away. She wanted to go to the hairdresser first.

    Siri Corn said she would send me a message to let me know when we are going to the gym. Not that far away from her there was a nice fitness studio where she could sign me in as a guest quite cheaply.

    It was already three o’clock in the afternoon and there was still no message from her yet. I wrote a short text asking if our training schedule at the gym would still be on. Two hours later and there was still no message from her. I sent her at least six more messages and still nothing.

    When finally I felt sure that something was not right it made no sense to send any more messages to her because there is no Thai girl in the world that is not constantly looking at her phone. I stopped all my attempts to communicate with her because I knew something was up.

    Around midnight I made my way back to Walking Street but this time I was by myself because Siri Corn had still not replied to any of my messages. I first went into Ibar for some drinks then I popped into one or two other clubs half hoping that I would bump into Siri Corn alone and that whatever excuse that she gave me would be plausible. Well I suppose we all fantasize from time to time right?

    The Heartbreak

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    I made my way to Club Lucifer. I made my way to the bar and ordered myself a San Miguel Light. To this day I don’t know why I decided to make my way to Lucifer’s but while standing at the bar I suddenly spotted Siri Corn. She was holding hands with an older guy maybe 65 or even 70. She hadn’t seen me. The guy she was with was old enough to be her father but he must have been very important to her financially because she suddenly spotted me at the bar but instead of coming over to make some excuse as to why she was with him (you know the kind ‘he is just a friend’ BS) she looked embarrassed and immediately turned her back on me but didn’t leave the club. So obviously this guy was more important to her than me.

    I didn’t want to cause a problem for her but I did want an explanation. So I thought ‘I won’t approach her while she’s with him because that will make her lose face. I’ll wait near the toilet she’ll have to go at some point.’

    I was right but I waited a full 30 minutes until she headed towards me and the toilets. As she approached me I moved over to try and speak to her but she raised the flat of her palm to me in a gesture to say ‘Don’t even speak to me.’ I was absolutely devastated that she couldn’t at least have a conversation out of sight of this other guy even if it was just to say ‘thank you and goodbye.’

    As she walked away from me I called out her name a couple of times but she completely ignored me and headed back to be with the older guy once again. I was feeling absolutely empty inside. I left Club Lucifer immediately but decided to send Siri Corn a short message text when I was on Walking Street ‘I want to say thank you for the great time I shared with you because you made me feel so alive. I was feeling a little lost when we met.’

    This was the very last message I ever sent to Siri Corn and of course I did not get any reply either.

    I went straight back to the club where I had met Wawa but this time I had good luck because while I was still there she asked me for a drink and I spoke to her for quite a while. While she was an attractive looking girl she was 25 years old and she still had some childish behavior in her I told her about Siri Corn and she was sorry about what had happened to me. She made me an offer for 2000 Baht she would spend the night with me and would make me feel happy again. I told her I would give her 4000 Baht if she would make me forget about Siri Corn.

    The Last Day A Surprise Call

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    It was August 31st and it was my last day in Thailand. I had already packed my suitcase because I had to clear the room by noon. On the previous six days Wawa had always been with me. She actually went back to her room to change clothes because she wanted to join me on my way back to the airport. I had plenty of time because a taxi was taking me to the airport it would pick me up at six o’clock in the evening.

    I was checking all drawers and cabinets when my phone starts ringing. I was convinced that it was Wawa and that she was calling back just to let me know she would be coming back half an hour late because she was always late. But it was not Wawa. To my complete surprise it was Siri Corn who was calling me for a face to face call.

    When I picked up the phone I saw her face. She looked so beautiful but she looked stressed. She looked at me without saying anything. Then she said ‘I’m actually staying in Koh Samui. You are leaving today right?’ I said that is correct and I told her the taxi would pick me up soon. She asked me ‘You hate me now right?’ and again ‘You hate me now right?’

    I answered her and said ‘No Siri Corn I don’t hate you at all. If I hated you I would not have answered the phone as I could see it was you who was calling me.’ Right then she started crying. Her tears were running down her face. She said she felt so sorry and so guilty for what had happened. I said ‘Don’t worry Siri Corn I will be leaving today anyway so it doesn’t really matter does it?’

    She said that she had probably made the biggest mistake of her life and now she had to live with that for the rest of her life. At first I thought she was just feeling some kind of sympathy for letting me down but she came across as kind of genuine and her feelings seemed very strong that she would be constantly thinking about me all the time and what she had done.

    Then she said to me ‘You have a nice house a good job and a good life back home right? I’ve never had the chance to have the same in Thailand. I’m sick of selling my body. I’m tired of having no money. During the pandemic I had no money at all and I had to borrow money and now I have to pay it back. The man you saw me with in Lucifer’s I met accidentally on my way back to my room. He offered me a real fortune. He told me he would give me 40000 Baht if I would stay with him for two weeks. I felt really guilty not telling you and leaving you as I did but the money was too tempting to turn him down which is why I had to ignore you when I saw you in Lucifer’s.’

    The Final Phone Call

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    She then said ‘I know I hurt you so much but I really love you and I want you to give me a chance to make it up. I want to be your girlfriend. I will wait for you to come back to Pattaya. Please give me a chance.’

    I listened to her story for a couple of minutes. Then I said ‘Sorry Siri Corn but our story is over. I do not want any relationship with you and I will not message you again. You hurt me too much. I’m sorry but that’s the way our story is ending right here and right now.’

    She started crying again and repeated ‘I’m so sorry for what I did to you. Please forgive me. I am always thinking about you because I love you.’ She went quiet for a moment and finally she whispered ‘I know it’s all my fault. You are right. But please don’t forget me.’

    I then told her ‘Look I forgive you. It hurt me at the time but I’m over it now and I don’t have any bad feelings towards you. I hope you have a decent life and I hope you meet somebody to take care of you. But for now that’s it. I’m ending the call and I won’t call you back. Goodbye Siri Corn.’

    Analysis What Was Real and What Was a Game

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    On the flight home from Bangkok to Germany I had some very sentimental thoughts about Thailand. I had never had a holiday like this one it was a real rollercoaster ride with lots of emotional involvement. I thought to myself ‘Have I now become heartless? Have I got no feelings? Was I quite cruel to Siri Corn?’

    I thought about her and I analyzed what had happened all the way back to Germany. I personally think it was all a game a setup a lot of lies told for my benefit. What I believe actually is true is that she had several sponsors who come back to Pattaya regularly. The guy she was with was obviously one of them. What made him more important than me was the fact that he was paying her a monthly salary sending her money from his country directly to her bank account in Pattaya whereas I was only a holiday boyfriend.

    I believe she had no money during the pandemic and yes I believe she probably borrowed money like many of the other girls did. But as far as loving me and feeling guilty? No. Not at all. She was just trying to repair the damage for her own gain. She had made a mental note of the day I was leaving Thailand because she probably thought I’d meet her and give her any Thai Baht I had left over or perhaps if she was really lucky she could persuade me to become yet another sponsor a mug punter who sends her money from Germany every month in the belief that she was really waiting for me to return when all the time she was going out with different customers on a nightly basis in Pattaya.

    And what about the story of the motorcycle? Apparently she’d been saving it for two years and had 200000 Baht saved her dream would come true in another year. So how is it she had no money during the pandemic? This was just another ploy to try and wind me in hoping I would turn around and say ‘Well let me give you the rest of the balance for the motorcycle and make you happy.’

    The Thai bar girls play tricks and tell lies like this to maximize their income. I really wish I had remembered this story when she called me so that I could have challenged her when she told me she borrowed money during the pandemic. She probably would have hung up her phone as she would have lost face because she wouldn’t have been able to answer the question.

    I couldn’t get that last sentence she told me out of my mind ‘Don’t forget me.’ Quite unusual I thought. Why had she said this? Well it was obvious really. She was trying to create the illusion that we had a loving relationship that had broken up like Romeo and Juliet and she was trying to play some guilt on me. The bar girls always do this they try to turn the situation around to make it seem like it was my fault not hers even though she was the one who ran off with another customer.

    Pattaya Bar Girl Realities

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    The girls who work in the bars in Pattaya don’t go there to find romance or true love. They go there for one reason only they want to make money for their families. They know exactly what they are doing and exactly what they are saying and they are very manipulative. But at the end of the day they’re not made of stone they are still human beings like we are.

    ‘Don’t forget me’ maybe it was just a calculated campaign on her side to bring me back on track to later get caught out by the honey trap and to drain my wallet once again. Unlikely but perhaps she really did have some feelings for me. I mean we had bonded over time and as I said they’re not made of stone. I guess I’ll never know for absolute certainty what her real motives were although I can pretty much guess.

    Maybe in 30 years from now when I’m old and gray and sitting by a fireplace I will be looking back with fond memories of Pattaya and I will remember that first night in Ibar and the moment I spotted Siri Corn smiling at me in that orange chef dress that said Gucci and those tall leather boots that made her look so sexy. I will be thinking ‘Where is Siri Corn today? What did she do with her life in the end? Is she living somewhere abroad and has she a nice family?’ Whatever happened to her I wish her the best of luck and I hope she had a happy life. I will never forget this wonderful lady however devious who made me so happy when I visited Pattaya alone.

    In hindsight it’s easy to criticize the girls in Pattaya and to call them all devious. As far as I’m aware there is no welfare system in Thailand. Many of these girls are married young their husbands leave them for whatever reason or they leave them for excessive drinking gambling and womanizing. Many have children and siblings to take care of. For the most part they have a limited education coming from poor farming communities in rural Thailand. So what choices do they have?

    Siri Corn was a master of the game and played her part well. As for me I was lucky I left with a broken heart but my wallet was intact.”So see what you think of this one and hopefully you’ll pick up one or two lessons.

    Story Two The Five Year Con A Warning from Manchester

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    I found myself a single guy again at the age of 46 that was in 2014. Although I’ve never been married as I’ve never seemed to have met the right woman I had three long relationships and spent years at a time living the free life. Maybe marriage wasn’t for me and I’ve had a commitment problem I really don’t know. I’m 55 at the moment.

    In 2014 I went to Thailand on holiday with an old school friend. I met him in Bangkok and we planned to backpack around the islands. After spending a week in Bangkok we visited the Tiger Temple (now closed) the Bridge on the River Kwai and various other adventures. Then we set off to Koh Samui.

    First night there we went on a drinking session where I met a beautiful Laos woman who I took back to my bungalow and had some of the best aerobics I’ve ever had. I never tipped her any money I just took her for the odd meal and some drinks. She was my first taste of Asian girls and I liked it a lot. After meeting her and as I said we were backpacking around the island I didn’t see her again. After visiting Ko Phangan we then went to Ko Tao. I met a bar girl who I bar fined for a few days. I had an enjoyable holiday in Thailand then headed back home to Manchester in the UK.

    Back in Manchester The Dating Site

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    Back home in Manchester I thought it’s time to find a girlfriend here in England. I went on to a free dating site to try my luck. After a few weeks there didn’t seem to be much on there but then I saw a Thai woman living in the Manchester area looking for a boyfriend. ‘Sounds interesting’ I thought. I messaged her and after just a few messages she sent me her number which was unexpected as normally it takes a lot of messaging to and fro to get a number off a lady in the UK.

    Soon after we chatted and she wanted to meet me straight away that evening. So we met up but to my surprise she brought her friend with her who was Vietnamese and seemed to be pushing me towards her instead. The date went quite well with the both of them and a week later they both visited my home. They seemed impressed with my house and asked me ‘Do you own this outright?’ I thought that was a bit of a cheeky question but thought maybe they are just checking if I’m financially stable for the future like Asian women do.

    After that day I noticed the Thai lady seemed much more interested in me and stopped trying to push the Vietnamese girl onto me. Soon afterwards the Thai lady came and stayed over at my house where we had some good aerobics. We also started seeing each other properly and went out together for meals films and the like. Like all Thai women she was an excellent cook and owned a food place in Manchester. She would come and cook fantastic food for me. It was going very well.

    Moving In

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    Around a month later she said ‘Why don’t you come and move in with me and rent your house out? You can get some extra money and you don’t have to pay anything towards my bills at all.’ So soon after that I moved in with her. At that point I had left my house empty just in case anything went wrong in the relationship which I thought was a wise decision to take.

    Soon after this she started talking of retirement and going back to Thailand to retire and asked if I would like to go there and retire with her. I said ‘Yeah that sounds good.’

    About a year later we had been living together and getting on quite well. I rented my house out which was difficult as I had spent years of hard work trying to get it really nice. It’s difficult letting strangers live in your home even though they’re paying you rent because people treat your property differently than you treat it yourself. Eventually I got my head around it and I rented out my house. I also sold many personal things and I gave some items to charity shops because I had nowhere to store them and really regretted my decision years later.

    The Pickup Truck and the Land

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    Around 18 months later she asked me to buy a pickup truck in Thailand. She told me she would buy land to the same value as the pickup truck and we would be 50 50 all the way when we retired. We planned our visit to Thailand and would stay in her hotel she owned there this was about 18 months into the relationship.

    So convinced it was the right thing to do I bought a brand new Toyota pickup truck over there which cost about 20000 English pounds and she bought a plot of land for approximately the same value.

    When I got to Thailand I wondered if I’d made a mistake as I didn’t really like it that much. It was too much of a culture shock as it wasn’t a tourist area and was totally different from when I’d visited as a tourist years earlier. I also regretted that I had purchased the pickup truck.

    It also transpired that she had a 23 year old son who couldn’t speak any English at all and obviously I couldn’t speak Thai. I tried to be friends with him but found it difficult as we couldn’t communicate. He seemed to be massively spoiled by his mother and she wouldn’t hear a bad word against him however true it might be. She actually thought the sun shone out of his backside.

    In the end I had an exciting holiday in Thailand and drove the new pickup truck around the northern mountains of Thailand towards Burma. We went to lots of different places in Northern Thailand.

    The Warnings

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    For the next four years we lived together in England above her food shop near Manchester which was a successful business and she made a lot of money from while I worked full time elsewhere.

    One day around this time a guy at work warned me. He said ‘You know you can’t own land or property in Thailand don’t you?’ I said I didn’t know that. He warned me again everything would be in the Thai person’s name if anything is purchased together.

    We would visit Thailand around three or four weeks every Christmas and she would plan the future. She was planning to build a house there. She said it would cost around 800000 Baht to build a big four bedroomed house in Thailand. I ended up giving her half 400000 Baht towards the house. I had already given her a new pickup truck and around 10000 towards the cost of an extra piece of land and to build some walls.

    We had some great holidays over there exploring and visiting neighboring countries but I felt something wasn’t right. Sometimes I had doubts about it all.

    For example a guy I know who had been going to Thailand to do Thai boxing for 30 years was over there so one day we went for a drink together. Almost as soon as I had walked away from my Thai girlfriend he said ‘I’ve been coming out here for 30 years and I’ve seen a lot of guys come here to live with Thai women and not one of them has come out of it good.’ He said this after various others had warned me about Thai women and people mysteriously falling off balconies over there. But to be fair I think it was mainly bar girls girls who worked in beer bars.

    The End

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    By October 2018 I had been living with my Thai girlfriend for about five years approximately. It was a strenuous time as she wanted more money to build the house which was over budget. We had already booked and paid for flights and I think she knew I was having some doubts in the back of my mind.

    I still remember it very well. I came home from work and sat down. She came over to me and said ‘Do you still want to build the house in Thailand?’ I responded with ‘No.’ Within seconds she took a suitcase off the top of the wardrobe packed all my clothes into it and told me to get out. This was after five years of living together. Luckily my father let me live with him for a while.

    She was an incredibly likeable person by the people around her very friendly very chatty. She would buy people Christmas presents that she went to the gym with. Everyone seemed to love her. When I first met her she said she had left Thailand as a chef and went to work in Switzerland in a hotel. She then lived in Belgium for a few years as a chef. She was always calling bar girls ‘no good’ for no apparent reason. Thinking about it I think that’s what she was in the past a bar girl. She had probably got married to some unfortunate guy and he had taken her to Europe. No one will ever know the truth.

    On the financial side of things she had over 30000 pounds out of me and would not return any of my belongings which amounted to a few thousand pounds on top. Some of the items were in Thailand expensive cameras mountain bikes and other items. Even when I asked for some personal things of no value to anyone she wouldn’t return any of it. It was as if she wanted to take every single thing right down to the last penny. She wasted over five years of my life just to try and get money out of me. She concocted elaborate lies just to cheat me.

    I also believe that the hotel which she still owns in Chiang Mai was gained by cheating other guys out of thousands of pounds years before she met me here in the UK.

    My father said it right when he said ‘She is capable of anything and she never loved you.’ To be able to pack your suitcase and throw you out on the street without a second thought after five years of living together is truly heartless.

    The Lucky Escape

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    When I look back I think that I had a lucky escape from her and I honestly believe she never even liked me at all from day one. She looked at me like a cash cow that could be milked for all I’m worth until I had nothing left and then she could move on to the next sucker.

    I would say to anyone who listens to this story this is a lesson you should take on board. It’s not all smiles and hugs there is a darker side to some of these relationships.

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