Passport Trouble With A Phuket Bar Girl

I went on holiday to Phuket, Thailand for the first time in April 2026 for 12 days. Before I went for about 6 months, I watched a lot of videos from you and other YouTubers to prepare myself for what was to come. I left feeling very confident that I knew everything I had to do. Oh boy, was I wrong. I arrived in Phuket on Saturday around 7:00 p. m. Before I left the airport, I withdrew 10,000 Thai baht from the ATM outside. But I think it’s better to bring your money with you and exchange it there.

I then went to look for the bus to Patang. I saw someone from security and asked where I could catch the bus to Pong. They told me there were no buses at that time and advised me to go to the front of the airport and take a minivan. I asked the minivan driver how much it would cost to Patong. And he said it was 180 Thai bar, but it was a shared minivan with others and I had to wait for it to fill up. I waited for the minivan to fill up and he took everyone to the front of their hotel one by one. I stayed at the Days in Hotel 1 minute walk from Bangler Road. It was an acceptable price, clean, and had friendly staff.

I arrived at the hotel at around 10 p. m. I wanted to take a shower and sleep, but I realized I hadn’t bought any shower gel or shampoo. I went along to 7-Eleven, which was a 3minut walk away. On the way to the store, I saw many girls on the pavement who were nicely dressed pulling at my hands and offering me a massage, but I managed to politely refuse them. After I had done my shopping on the way back to the hotel, a girl tightly grabbed my hand and offered me a massage. I tried to tell her that I couldn’t because I’d only just arrived and I was tired, but she insisted. I told her I had to take a shower and would come back.

She then came closer to me, took me in her arms, smelled me and said that I smelled good. While she was holding me and looking up at me with a beautiful expression and a perfect smile, I could tell from her eyes that she was around 30 years old and she was very beautiful. When I got up to the room, she showed me another menu with more options. I chose a special service which was 2,500 K Thai baht, but I convinced her to accept 2,000 BART because she treated me very well while doing her job and looked very good. I asked if I could upgrade to the full option, which was 4,000 Thai baht for 2 hours, and she agreed. After the 2 hours, I went back to the hotel, took a shower, and went to sleep. However, after tossing and turning in bed for about an hour, I realized I wasn’t able to sleep. So, I decided to take a walk along Bangler Road.

I walked to the end of the street and was amazed, especially at someone visiting Thailand for the first time. When I wanted to return to the hotel, I remembered from the YouTube videos that there were gentleman’s clubs there, too. I didn’t know what they were like inside, so I decided to go in, have a beer, and see what it was like. It was about 1:00 a. m. when I arrived on a side street near Bangla Road and was pulled into a gentleman’s club by a group of beautiful girls. It was a small bar with a long stage in the middle where 10 girls and women were dancing and there were about 20 more around the bar waiting for customers. Three girls came over, led me to a table, gave me a menu and I ordered a beer.

The girls started holding me in their arms and telling me how handsome I was. Yeah, right. You know the normal kind of script. I knew what these girls were saying and doing wasn’t true, but it still made me feel good. I looked around the bar and I saw that there were only three other customers who were much younger than me.

First Night On Bangla Road

And I told myself I would drink this beer and leave. One of the girls asked if I wanted to buy all three of them a ladies drink, but I politely told her that I wanted to look around a little more and I would let her know when I decided. After a minute, two of the girls left. From what I had seen on YouTube, I didn’t have to buy drinks for just any girl. I had to find one I connected with and felt comfortable with. It wasn’t long before a man entered the bar who looked older than me with white hair and a small belly. A pretty young girl who was sitting at the bar happily got up and ran over to him, hugged him, and kissed him. I was amazed.

I didn’t know what was happening. So, I asked the girl who had stayed with me what was going on. She told me that the gentleman was a customer who had been coming there for some time. I then decided to stay and offered a drink to the girl who had stayed with me because she had been kind and hadn’t asked me to buy her one. I stayed with her until the bar closed and I didn’t even realize how quickly the time had passed. I bought her five drinks at 250 bar each and I drank three beers at 120 bar each. I felt very comfortable with her and was amazed by what she told me I could do with her in that bar. something I hadn’t encountered in clubs in the UK.

Before I left, she made me promise to return to return to see her the following day, but I knew it wasn’t a good idea to see the same girl twice. It was now 4:00 a. m. and I still couldn’t sleep. I must say that I’d been awake for almost 2 days, but I went back to the hotel, took a shower, and went to bed. I slept until 9:00 a. m. , but I couldn’t sleep any longer.

I decided to go outside for a walk, thinking that perhaps I would sleep in the afternoon. I went to a restaurant on the beach where I ate and drank a beer. After I finished eating and drinking my beer, I took a walk along the beach. After about an hour of walking, I went back to the hotel, took a shower, and went to sleep. Finally, I woke up at around 4 p. m. and went to look for somewhere else to eat. I discovered a shopping center called Jung Son close to Bangla Road, where I found an interesting restaurant on the ground floor serving all kinds of Asian food.

For about 120 Thai baht, you could get something to eat and drink. Anyway, after walking around, I thought I would try and find a freelancer like those I had seen on the internet because it was too early to go to a bar. I went on Tinder and within a few minutes, I had arranged to meet a girl at the hotel. We discussed beforehand what I wanted and how much it would cost. It was 5,000 Bart for a full service, 1 hour. The girl was very beautiful. I went back to the hotel and I prepared as you and the other YouTubers had advised. I put everything valuable in the safe and only kept the money I had to give her.

When she messaged me to say that she had arrived outside the hotel, I went downstairs to check that she was the girl in the photographs. We went to reception where she left her ID and then went up to the room. She left after an hour, but I wasn’t impressed with her performance. From what I noticed and from the advice I’d seen online, the younger and more beautiful the girl is, the less effort she will put into the aerobics. I prefer a girl to get involved.

Meeting Sana In The Bar

Like the girl from the previous night who gave me the massage. Anyway, I stayed in the room till about 9:00 p. m. Then I went back to Bangler Road. I wanted to visit a normal bar to see what it was like. But as I walked down the street, I kept thinking about the gentleman’s club I had visited the night before. However, I didn’t want to return to the same bar because I didn’t want to meet the same girl again. At one point, I came across another gentleman’s club on Bangler Road and stopped outside.

I don’t think I’d been standing there for more than a few seconds when two girls came over and took hold of my hands and started pulling me inside. They told me to come in and see what it was like because entry was free. When I entered, two girls came over and led me to a table. The bar was bigger than the one I had visited the day before, but it was similar with a long stage in the middle where the girls were dancing and small tables along the side. The waitress came to take my order and then the two girls if I wanted to buy them something to drink. I didn’t like their attitude, so I politely told them that I had only just arrived and wanted to look around for a while. I looked around the bar and saw only two other customers. I then understood why the girls were so desperate, as I knew they received commission from ladies drinks.

After about 5 minutes, one of the girls dancing on stage stepped down and started walking towards me. She seemed very shy and wasn’t smiling like the other girls. She sat on the couch, but not next to me, and greeted me. I greeted her, too. But there was something strange about her, although I didn’t know what it was. I continued drinking my beer without making eye contact with her, and after a while, she left. As I drank my beer and decided that I would finish it and leave because I hadn’t seen anyone I liked. However, just as I was finishing my drink and preparing to leave, the girl who had approached me earlier ended up dancing on the stage directly in front of me.

I saw her looking at me still without smiling and dancing slowly unlike the other girls. When she noticed me looking at her, she turned around and from that point on, I only watched her. When she turned back and looked at me again, I don’t know why, perhaps I felt sorry for her, but I asked if she wanted to come and sit beside me. She wasn’t sure whether I was speaking to her, so I asked her again. She smiled for the first time and after she had finished dancing, she came over to me. She was still shy with her head slightly bowed, but this time was smiling. She sat on the couch, although not very close to me, and we started talking. I realized that she didn’t speak English very well because she only knew three sentences.

What’s your name? Where you come from? And how old are you? In the meantime, another girl walked past and told the girl who will call Sana to move closer to me. The other girl then took my hand, told me to put my arm around Suana and suggested that I buy her a ladies drink. Perhaps Suana was genuinely quite new to this bar because she didn’t know what to do. I asked Suana if it was okay for me to hold her and she said yes, although I don’t know whether she understood me. I had another beer and she had a ladies drink.

I discovered that she was 30 years old and had been working at the bar for 10 days. However, I knew from the internet that many girls say this, so I didn’t believe her. Anyway, the chemistry between us was good, at least from my point of view, and after four more drinks, Sana relaxed and became very affectionate towards me. She climbed onto my lap and started kissing me. The manager then approached and asked if I wanted to take Sana back to the hotel.

Daytime With Sana

I asked how much it would cost, and she told me it was 17,000 tai bar. This was more than I had paid any of the other girls so far, and I thought they were trying to rip me off. I looked at my wallet, known that I didn’t have that much money, and I showed her that I only had 4,000 Bart. The manager then asked if I wanted to spend 20 minutes with Sana in a private room for 3,000 Bart. I looked at Sana and noticed that she was no longer relaxed since the manager had arrived. She had stopped smiling and wasn’t saying anything. I told the manager that I would think about it. After the manager left, I asked Sana if she was all right.

She said she was fine, but she didn’t seem to be. Sana continued sitting on my lap, but she wasn’t doing anything. A girl dancing on the stage in front of us said something to Sana in Thai while pointing towards the back. I later discovered that she was pointing towards the private room. Sana hugged me and whispered something in my ear about the private room, but I told her that I didn’t understand. She then took my hand, led me to the private room, and asked if I wanted to go inside with her. I was already excited after being with her for so long, and I had drunk a few beers. While I was deciding whether to go in, the manager appeared, and asked whether I had made up my mind.

I agreed, gave the manager the money, and she told me to go inside and wait. About 5 minutes passed, and I didn’t know what was happening or why Sana hadn’t arrived. At one point, a man came in and told me that Sana would be there soon and that she was getting ready. I later discovered that he was the main boss. I waited another couple of m minutes and Sana appeared carrying a tray with 10 shots. She ran two of them immediately and sat on my lap. After a few minutes of warming up, she started getting to work, but first she drank another two shots. After about 20 minutes, I was finished.

And I, as I was preparing to leave, Sena told me to take out my phone. I gave it to her and she tried to enter a phone number, but she was struggling. She was panicking because I wasn’t allowed to have my phone out and she kept looking around to see if anyone was coming in. Eventually, she managed to enter the number and told me to call her the following day. At that moment, I told myself that I would meet her only once more because I had to got along well with her. I saved her number in my phone and left. I returned to the hotel, took a shower, and went to sleep. That night, I slept a little better.

When I woke up, I messaged her, but she didn’t reply. So, I thought she might have entered the number incorrectly or changed her mind. I went out for a walk and to get something to eat. While I was sitting at the table eating, Sana messaged me and asked me what I was doing. I told her that I was walking around and looking for somewhere to eat, and I asked if she wanted to meet and have something to eat also. She agreed and we arranged to meet outside a shopping center. I finished eating, went outside the shopping center to wait for her. When she arrived, she looked like a completely different person.

She was no longer the bar girl and looked like a normal girl. We went to a restaurant inside the shopping center and while we were there sitting at the table, someone video called her. After speaking to that person for a few minutes, she introduced me to her. Sana said that she was her mother. I greeted her and Sana ended the call.

Ignoring The Red Flags

After we had eaten, she asked about my plans and how long I would be staying in Phuket using Google Translate, of course. I told her that the following morning I was leaving for two days on the PP islands and then spending 6 days in Bangkok. I asked if she could come with me to PP island for 2 days. She told me that she couldn’t because she had to work. I then suggested that she come with me in the morning and return in the afternoon before going to work. She thought about it for a while and agreed. After we had eaten, we walked around the shopping center for a while. She then told me that she had to leave to prepare for work.

But before leaving, she asked if I would visit her at the bar. She told me not to tell anyone at the bar that we had met outside. I wasn’t sure what to say because if I went there and she was with another customer, I wouldn’t be able to spend time with her. I eventually told her that I would arrive at about 2:00 a. m. and stay with her until she finished work. We could then return to my hotel together before leaving for the PP island at 7:00 a. m.

She agreed and told me that she would come to my hotel at around 7:00 p. m. and stay with me for an hour before going to work. She would also leave her bag with me for the trip and I agreed. I walked her to where she had parked her scooter and after she left, I walked around until 6:00 p. m. I returned to the hotel, took a shower, and waited for her. At around 700 p.

m. she messaged me to say that she was leaving home but would be a little late. She arrived at the hotel 20 minutes later and came up to my room. I thought she had come for something more intimate. But she said that we didn’t have enough time and told me to wait until she had finished work. I must say that until this point I had treated her like a bar girl because that’s what was where I had met her. Although I was always respectful towards her. We talked using Google Translate and at one point while sitting on my lap and kissing me, she told me that she loved me.

This was when I noticed the second red flag, which I had learned from a YouTuber. It didn’t necessarily mean anything bad, but I knew I had to be careful. After she told me that she loved me, I looked into her eyes, smiled, and told her that I didn’t believe her. I don’t know whether she understood what I had said because she smiled and continued kissing me. At 8:00 p. m. , she left for work and said that we would see each other again at 2:00 a. m.

I stayed in bed, watched television for a while, and decided to sleep until 2:00 a. m. I woke up at 1:30 and went to the bar to see Sana. When I arrived, she was dancing on the stage. I walked past her and sat at a table.

Ferry Trip And Loneliness

When she saw me, she smiled and waved. After she had finished dancing, she came over and said that she would join me in a few minutes. I ordered another beer and waited for her. When she returned, I offered to buy her a drink as there were only four other customers in the entire bar. Another girl came and sat with her. She said that she had come to help translate because Sana couldn’t speak English. Sana told me to buy the girl a drink and said that I wouldn’t have to buy her anything else for the rest of the evening. After about half an hour, I heard a gong.

It appeared that a customer had rung the famous bell, which I had been warned to avoid because it could be very expensive. All the girls in the bar became excited and when I asked the girl sitting with us to explain what had happened, she said that a customer had brought drinks for everyone in the bar, including me. That’s what happens when you ring the bell. When I noticed that Sana had finished her drink, I told her to get another one, but she said that she didn’t need one. Anyway, the rest of the evening went well. At 4:00 a. m. , the music stopped and Sana told me to wait for her outside.

We went outside and returned to my hotel. We went up to my room, took a shower together, and had a short aerobic session. At 7:00 a. m. , we left the hotel to catch the ferry. She had to leave at 2:30 p. m. , so we returned to the room to collect her bag.

However, while we were saying goodbye, the atmosphere became heated, and I asked if she wanted another aerobic session. This time it lasted longer, and when I looked at the clock, it was already 2:12 p. m. Sana then said she could stay for another day, but she would have to pay 10,000 Thai bar if she didn’t go to work. I thought about it for a while and told myself that all the time she had spent with me was worth more than 10,000 Bart. So, I agreed. However, Sana said that I didn’t have to pay the full amount. She suggest that I pay 6,000 Bart and she would contribute 4,000 Bart.

I told her that it wasn’t a problem and that I could give her the full 10,000 Bart. I took out 10,000 Bart and offered it to her, but she accepted only 6,000 Bart and said that was enough. I didn’t insist and we returned to bed where we talked for a little longer and finished with another aerobic session. Afterwards, we went for a walk, had a drink, and spent some time near the pool. When it became dark, we went to get something to eat and then returned to the room to sleep. It was then almost time for Sana to leave. We returned to the room to say goodbye, but this time we went back early enough to have plenty of time. After the aerobic session, I told her that I would try to return from Bangkok as soon as possible so that I could spend the rest of the my Thai holiday with her, especially as my flight back to the UK was departing from Puket.

Anyway, I can’t remember whose idea it was, but we decided that after returning from Bangkok, I would stay at her home. We agreed that I would return to her condominium in 2 days. After Suana left, I returned to my room feeling very sad. I realized that I had made a big mistake by seeing the same girl for more than 2 days. I had ignored the advice I had heard from you on YouTube.

Returning To Sana

That day, she sent me a few messages and we even had a video call before she went to work at the bar. I knew what she was doing there, but I don’t think I was jealous. I simply missed her. I went out to a bar, had a few beers, and returned to my room. At 5:00 a. m. , she sent me a message saying that she had arrived home and was going to sleep. The following day, I flew to Bangkok and then I took a taxi to Pattaya because I wanted to reach the hotel as quickly as possible.

I exchanged messages with Suana throughout the day. I visited several bars on Walking Street and I met a few girls, but I experienced the same problem as I had had in Phuket. I couldn’t find a girl who spokeke even a little English. Anyway, I enjoyed myself that evening and didn’t think about Sana until I returned to the hotel where I felt the same loneliness I had experienced when Sana first left. I realized that I wasn’t in love with Sana. I simply missed being with someone. The following day, I went for a walk around the city and also visited the beach. After about 2 hours of walking, I decided to return to the hotel because it was too hot and I really wanted to take a shower.

On the way back, I passed a massage parlor where all the women were wearing uniforms. The building had a large window at the front through which I could see other customers, so it appeared to be a legitimate massage parlor. Two women standing on the pavement approached me and offered me a massage. I tried to refuse politely and told them that I was sweaty and needed to take a shower. One of the women offered to give me a shower. I still had about an hour’s walk back to the hotel and I liked the idea, but I told them that I wanted a massage from the younger girl sitting on a chair at the back. I went upstairs with a girl and she took me into a cubicle. She showed me where I could take a shower and then told me to lie on the massage table.

After showering, the girl returned. She tried to remove the towel but quickly put it back. I heard her laugh and she started massaging me. I looked to make sure that she was the girl I had chosen because I had heard stories of cases where they changed the girls when you weren’t looking. The massage was wonderful and very relaxing. After the massage was finished, I took another shower and left for the hotel feeling completely refreshed. I couldn’t believe what had happened. When I left the massage parlor, I saw that I had had two messages and a missed video call from Sana.

I had completely forgotten about her. She had asked where I was and what I was doing. I messaged her and said that I had been walking and was now returning to the hotel. She asked again where I was and I told her that I was in Pattaya. At that point, I didn’t know what our relationship was. I thought it was something temporary, but apparently she thought we were in a relationship because she became upset and accused me of going there to cheat on her with other girls, even though she worked in a gentleman’s club and sitting with different men every night. I didn’t understand what was happening and was very confused. However, I didn’t want to upset her because I was going to stay with her at her condominium.

So, I told her that I hadn’t been with any girls. I said that I had arrived at the hotel late the previous night and gone to sleep and that in the morning I had gone out to walk around the city. I told her that I would be leaving Pattaya in 2 hours and traveling to a hotel near the airport in Bangkok because I I had an 8:00 a. m. flight and wanted to make sure that I didn’t miss it.

Passport Photo And The Threat

I found a hotel near the airport and I ordered a taxi. When I arrived at the hotel in Bangkok, I messaged Sana and she video called me. She was very happy that I had left Pattaya. During the video call, I could see that she was packing her belongings into boxes. When I asked what she was doing, she told me that she was moving into a bigger condominium for me so that we would have more space. Anyway, the following morning, I flew to Phuket to meet Sana. When I arrived at her new condominium, she was waiting for me with a hot meal, which impressed me. It was Thai soup and rice with chicken.

Afterwards, I took a shower and when I came out, she was waiting on the bed, looking at me and smiling as though she wanted something. I went over to her and we ended up having a very enjoyable aerobic session. We stayed in the room until she had to prepare for work. While getting ready, she asked if I wanted to visit her at the bar. I told her that I would come to see her at 2:00 a. m. and that we would return home together on her scooter. After she left for work, I went to a nearby shopping center because I needed to buy a few things.

A couple of hours later, I returned to the condominium and I tried to sleep, but all I could think about was her and what was she doing at the bar. During our previous conversation, she had told me that she had only been working in the bar for a short time and had previously worked in a hotel. She showed me photographs of herself working there and said that she had lost her job because of the war in Iran. When she started working at the bar, she wanted to be a waitress, but the manager convinced her to dance because she was a she was pretty and could earn more money. She said that she didn’t like working in the bar and was looking for another job. I knew that the story probably wasn’t true, but I wanted to see whether she would leave the bar, at least while I was in Phuket. At 2:00 a. m.

, I went to see her at the bar. When I arrived, she was sitting at a table near the entrance with some of the other girls. As soon as she show saw me, she came straight over. She she took me to a table and we spent the rest of the night together. She didn’t ask me to buy her any drinks, but I offered to buy her two that night. At 4:00 a. m. , the bar closed and she told me to wait outside for her so that we could return home together.

When we arrived home, she took a shower. While waiting for her, I wondered whether I should speak to her then or wait until the morning. When she came out of the shower, she got into bed beside me without getting dressed and said that she was very tired. She fell asleep quickly. When we woke up, she made breakfast. After we had finished eating, I decided to tell her that I didn’t want her working in the bar and that she really disliked working there. She should leave. She thought about it for a few minutes and then told me that she would leave for for me.

She came over and hugged me. A few minutes later, she asked whether I would be allowed allow her to work for another 5 days until she received her next paycheck. I don’t know how the girls are paid or whether she was telling me the truth, but I told her that I didn’t want her working there for even one more day and I would take care of everything. I thought that she might be upset for the rest of my holiday, but she wasn’t. A few hours later, she said that she had a surprise for me.

Money Story And Broken Trust

When we were together on Pee Islands, I had told her that I wanted to visit a seafood restaurant, but I couldn’t find one. She now took me to one. I thought what that was the entire surprise, but after we had finished eating, she insisted on paying the bill, even though I also insisted on paying it because it was about 800 Thai baht. Anyway, everything went very well for the rest of the stay. We explored the city and I felt as though we were in a serious relationship. We also made some plans for the future. She asked me if I could move to Thailand, but I told her that I had two young boys with my exwife and I couldn’t leave them. She understood and said that she would move to the UK to be with me, but only after one year because she wanted to get to know me better.

On the final morning, she took me to a market so that I could buy some souvenirs. She also bought two scarves for my mother and my sister, and I appreciated the gesture very much. We spent the rest of the day in the room talking and having a very long goodbye aerobic session. I now believe that I made one of the biggest mistakes of the entire holiday. Before we left for the airport, Sana asked to see my passport. I thought that she wanted to see my full name, but she asked if she could photograph it in case she became pregnant. During the final two days, I’d run out of protection, and she had told me that we could do it without protection. She said that if I didn’t return to her, she would be able to show the child who the father was.

Yes, I know that was foolish. I realize that now, but at the time, I was in love with her and wasn’t thinking clearly. My flight to London was at 9:00 p. m. and Sana said that she would accompany me to the airport. She stayed with me until I went through security. Before leaving, I offered to arrange transport for her journey home, but she said that it wasn’t necessary. I returned home to the UK and we continued speaking every day by video call for about 5 days.

Something something strange then happened. She told me that a friend she had known since childhood had stolen 400,000 Thai baht from her. The money was apparently in her friend’s bank account. Although Sana had possession of the bank card and access to the online banking. I was convinced that this was she was about to ask me for money but she didn’t. We didn’t speak much that day, but because she was upset the following day when she called me, her sister was visiting her, but Sana was behaving normally as though nothing had happened the day before. I realized that everything she had done the previous day was probably intended to make to make me offer her money. I also realized that I hadn’t fallen in love with her, but with her behavior, which had been wonderful, affectionate, and caring.

Normally, I would have told her that there was no point in continuing our relationship because I knew that she had a copy of my passport. I didn’t want to upset her. I didn’t know what she might be able to do with it. So, I continued behaving normally towards her. For the next two days, she behaved normally, asking what I was doing, what I had eaten, and where I was going. There was nothing unusual. On the third morning, after she had told me that her friend had stolen the money, I asked what she was doing and how she was feeling. Sana told me that she had paid someone to find her friend and recover the money.

I suddenly saw a different side of her. Her expression was different and the sweet, kind girl had disappeared. This made me worry again about the copy of my passport and what she might do with it. Anyway, 2 days later, she called me and sounded happy. She said that she had recovered all her money.

Final Lesson From Phuket

Sana told me that the person she had hired had visited her friend’s parents and threatened them. I believe that she invented the story about her friend in the 400,000 bar, but I still didn’t understand what she was hoping to achieve with it. A couple of days later, she told me that she was going out for drinks with her sister. She video called me from the bar and showed me around. I told her to message me when she arrived home, but I never received a message that night. When I woke up at around 9:00 a. m. the following morning, I expected to see a message from her, but there was nothing.

I called her, but she didn’t answer. So I left a message asking if she was all right. So Anoa eventually video called me around 24 hours after our previous call. Her excuse was that she had become drunk. So her sister had taken her phone to prevent her from losing it. When her sister took her home, she forgot to leave the phone with her and Sana had only just got back. Honestly, I would have been happy if she hadn’t contacted me at all. But I told her that it was fine and made her promise not to do it again.

After 2 days, Sana told me that she was going out with her sister again. This time, she promised that she would stay out for only a couple of hours, return home, and call me. I told her that I was fine, but if she did the same thing as before, she shouldn’t bother contacting me again because I wouldn’t want to speak to her. Guess what? She did exactly the same thing again. That night, I didn’t call or message her before going to sleep. I deleted her number so that I wouldn’t be tempted to contact her. Perhaps she also wanted to end the relationship but didn’t know how to do it.

So, she chose this way. I must admit that I felt upset but also relieved at the same time. After 3 days, I received a message from Sana saying that she didn’t know what she wanted but missed me. I ignored it because I wanted to stop speaking to her. However, the following day, I couldn’t resist the temptation and told her that I missed her too, but I didn’t believe that the relationship was working. I know that I should have blocked her, but I still haven’t been able to do it. It has been almost 2 months since we broke up, and she still messages me and sends me photographs of herself about once a week. My question to you, Peter, is this.

What can she do with a copy of my passport? At the moment, I have been speaking to another girl from Kong Ken for about a month. I met her on Thai Friendly. She appears to have a normal job, and I’m hoping to meet her in September, but I hope that I will be more careful this time.