Spent Over £30,000 On A Pattaya Girl

After going through a bad divorce i decided to go with my three mates to Thailand.

One of my mates name Steve could speak very good thai and he told me about what to look out for in these bar girls (if only I had listened to him).

On arriving in pattaya I couldn’t beldieve that the beautiful girls would go with an elderly Chap like myself.

Although my mates were a lot younger than me, I felt like a teenager.

After three weeks we headed home, I was devastated.

Bitten By The Pattaya Bug

So I decided to go back out alone, as money was no problem, I spent a small fortune.

Then one day I was passing a shop and outside was a girl selling handbags.

I felt attracted to her straight away.

She agreed to go for a drink with me, then eventually staying with me while her friend took over the selling of handbags.

We talked and talked, she told me she was from lampang in North Thailand, previously married and had 3 daughters.

She made it clear to me she was not a bar girl, and we used protection every time.

So time had come for myself to go back home.

Sending Money To A Pattaya Girl

So I agreed to send her 40.000 baht a month, but she wanted more  which I was happy to oblige.

So on my next trip I went out with my mates, they went to Pattaya.

I went up to Lampang.

My mate Steve said when you pair come to Pattaya, don’t tell her I speak very good Thai.

On my arrival at lampang Airport she was nowhere to be seen.

I phoned her she was in a taxi in the car park.

When I met her there were no hugs nothing.

She told me she had found work in a restaurant, and if I wish I could go with her but stay outside.

there she was talking all time to a motorbike taxi driver.

She said to me you have a problem with that, I said no.

A week later we were back in Pattaya, we stayed in soi 7 with my mates

After a couple of days, my mate John said “I’m sure I’ve been her in a bar in soi Bukaho.“

Was My Thai Girlfriend A Bar Girl?

When I confronted her she denied everything,  I believed her.

She was constantly on her phone speaking thai.

My friend told me she mentions Germany all time.

I thought she had a friend in Germany.

My mates told me get rid of her.

What I didn’t tell them I bought her a car in lampang, I knew they would have gone crazy on me.

So time to come home ,my mates said hope you are not sending her money.

I laughed and said definitely not, which was a lie.

I started calling her on wattsapp, I noticed her chest were getting larger.

Feels Like My Thai Girlfriend Is Not Being Honest With Me

And looks like she was putting on weight.

Then she disappeared for 8 weeks, not a single word.

Then covid struck, then she reappeared,  she told me she had covid and didn’t want me to worry.

So over the next 3 years I supported her and her family.

When covid restrictions were eased, my mate Steve came up my house, he told me to call her on wattsapp, so I did and she answered.

Previous to the call I told Steve every time I call her she is in the same room.

So Steve asked her to show us around her home, she went berserk on him.

Then he started talking thai to her, she hung up.

Later I called her on my own, she started calling me names.

I said he was concerned you were coning me.

So my mate told me to tell her ill be in Thailand in two weeks.

With the covid restrictions being eased.

Realising I Have Been Lied To By My Thai Girl

I never heard from her so I had her friends phone number.

My mate Steve spoke to her in thai.

He went on his Facebook page, put a name in.

She had only been living in Germany with her German husband.

And their daughter for over 3 years.

I worked it out over 3 years, I’d sent her about 28 thousand pounds.

I told my mate Steve, he said keep it quiet, i said to him only if I had listened to his advice.

It could have cost me a lot more if I’d hadn’t confirmed in my mate.