The Thai Freelancer That Made My Trip Unforgettable
This was my second trip to Phuket, and I was eager for a new adventure. On my first trip, I had the pleasure of exploring the island with my girlfriend from Bangkok she was well acquainted with the area, so we hit all the popular spots and partied like there was no tomorrow. This time, however, I was flying solo and looked forward to the freedom of experiencing Phuket on my own terms.
As I arrived at Bangla Road just after midnight, the nightlife was still buzzing, and I felt I had plenty of time to dive into the fun. I began my evening by revisiting a couple of familiar clubs, and before long I found myself mingling with some lovely girls. Unfortunately, they all seemed a bit overzealous grabbing my attention and clamoring for drinks, most of them clearly under the influence of tequila or energy drinks.
When I inquired about one girl in particular, the mamasan gave me a strange look and informed me that since I was in a katoey bar, there would be a hefty 1,000 baht drink fee on top of the already premium pricing. I had to laugh at that. It was nearly 4:00 a.m., the bar was closing, and I wasn’t about to pay that kind of money just for a drink.
With options dwindling, I decided to explore the freelancer scene something I had never done before but was curious about. The area was bustling with girls, but nothing immediately caught my eye until I spotted a petite, darker skinned woman leaning against the wall, dressed casually in a tank top and cutoff jeans. She looked less like a hustler and more like someone waiting for a bus. Unlike the others, she wasn’t making a fuss or trying to attract attention. Instead, she had long, shiny hair like a model, and bright eyes and a warm, inviting smile. There was something charming about her, and I guessed she was in her late 30s or early 40s.
When I approached her, I learned her name was Tar. She mentioned that she had a room nearby and offered short time aerobics but her English was excellent, and our conversation flowed easily. I explained that I wasn’t looking for a quick fling. I had a nice villa just a few minutes away in Karon, which was quite private. I wanted to make sure she knew that right away it could have been a deal breaker for some. To sweeten the offer, I also told her I would cover her transportation the following day. She seemed open to the idea, though I could sense a hint of hesitation.
We hopped into a tuk tuk, headed to Karon. As we chatted, Tar revealed that she came from a farming background and had ventured to Phuket to supplement her income. While she had tried the bar scene, she found it uncomfortable due to the drinking culture which is why she opted for freelancing. Our conversation was relaxed and pleasant, and she had a refreshing vibe about her.
Tar and the Phuket Nightlife
The night at my villa was fantastic. Tar was both captivating and gentle, making the evening memorable. The following morning, she confided that she had been unsure about my offer but ultimately enjoyed herself. Tar mentioned that she usually heads to Bangla around 10:00 p.m. and encouraged me to look for her if I wanted to meet up again.
Sure enough, I returned the next night and found her chatting with a few other freelancers. She lit up when she saw me and immediately suggested we grab a few games of pool at a nearby bar. Afterwards, we made our way back to Karon, where we enjoyed each other’s company in a relaxed atmosphere.
One thing I noticed about Tar was her complete lack of online presence. She didn’t constantly check her phone or send messages on apps like WhatsApp or LINE which can often feel rude or distracting. Throughout our time together, she remained fully engaged, without any need for selfies or social media posts something that is all too common these days among bar girls. What I found particularly refreshing was that Tar didn’t drink at all. As someone who also prefers to avoid alcohol, it was nice to share that experience without the complications of a drunken night out.
The villa I had booked featured a private infinity pool with stunning views of Karon Beach. One night, we decided to take a dip and have some fun in the water. Tar was once again delightful her gentle approach was wonderful. She reminded me of a free spirited hippie from days gone by, full of warmth and charm.
As my trip drew to a close, I knew I had to head back to Bangkok the following day. We took our time getting out of bed, enjoying the final moments together. When it was time to say goodbye, I thanked Tar for a truly wonderful experience. We parted ways without exchanging contact information which felt fitting for the spontaneous nature of our encounter.
Reflecting on the trip, I can confidently say it was one of the best experiences I’ve had in Thailand even surpassing my first visit to the islands in the late 1970s. It was unexpected but exceeded all my expectations, feeling like something out of a dream. This journey not only reconnected me with a cherished destination but also reminded me of the magic of traveling and meeting extraordinary people along the way in Thailand.
Story Two Piney A First Love A Lost Chance and A Happy Ending in Europe
This story takes me back to early 2003, my first trip outside of my home country. At that time, I was living in a Southeast Asian country and needed to take a language exam to study in the USA. Due to some scheduling conflicts, I flew to Bangkok and stayed in a budget apartment thanks to a family friend who was a Thai business owner. She had several businesses, one of which was a condo building with a gym. Since I was pretty skinny, I decided to use my free time to get fit so I started going to the gym.
It was at this gym that I met a Thai girl named Piney. I was 20, and she was a bit older four years my senior. She was friendly, a foot shorter than me, and had a striking resemblance to Angelina Jolie. I believe she worked as either a massage therapist or a beautician in the same condo block, but I can’t quite remember. I had never really dated anyone before due to my focus on school and part time work, so Piney was the first girl I really wanted to pursue.
We clicked instantly, and it felt genuine. She was aware of my limited finances, so I don’t think she was after my money. We explored different parts of Bangkok together, making the most of our small budget. One time, we even tried aerobics, but that didn’t go too well. During this time, I found out that she had a Thai boyfriend. This left her feeling conflicted between him and me. I promised her that I wouldn’t forget her and that I would come back for her once I was in the US.
My main stay in Thailand was short only about 5 weeks. After I arrived in the States for school, long distance communication faded quickly. I was busy settling into my new life, and I knew she chose her boyfriend over me.
A few years later, after a breakup, I was in a better financial position and decided to reach out to Piney. By then, she was still with her Thai boyfriend and didn’t respond much to my messages. Instead, I ended up chatting with her Chinese friend, whom I had also met briefly. This led to a long distance relationship with a Chinese girl who was also a few years older than me.
Piney and My First Bangkok Romance
Meanwhile, Piney had moved to Dubai to work as a beautician in a hotel. I find that hard to believe, given what I had heard about Dubai. Her relationship with her Thai boyfriend ended when he left her for a younger woman. I was deeper into my relationship with her Chinese friend by then, so I wasn’t in a position to rekindle things with Piney and I didn’t want to be her second choice. She seemed to be in a tough spot, spending time with men from Bangladesh who worked in Dubai but weren’t romantically interested in her.
Fast forward a few more years, and Piney told me she had returned to Thailand and was exploring a more spiritual path. She was single and sending me chili infused pictures to catch my attention. While I was also single at the time, I chose not to pursue her, since she had picked someone else before and I felt she had missed her chance. Despite being in her 30s, she still looked great.
Around 2014, she met a European guy while working at a real estate company in Thailand. He had a daughter from a previous marriage and asked Piney to marry him and move to Europe. She was thrilled about the opportunity and said yes. Of course. They formed a strong bond, and she often posted updates about their travels together on Facebook. I’m genuinely happy for her that she found the family life she wanted even if her age meant she couldn’t have kids without some risks.
Life can take unexpected turns, and I’ve learned that firsthand. This story ended on a positive note, and I’m glad to have witnessed her happy ending.
Story Three From Skeptic to Family How a Pregnant Thai Woman Changed My Life
I recently caught up with your YouTube channel and realized I have a few experiences to share. Just to clarify I’m not your typical guy who frequents bars. That scene doesn’t appeal to me at all. I believe the best way to steer clear of scams is to not come across as desperate for female attention. My journey in Thailand is quite different from what others might experience.
I’m a 54 year old man from Central Europe, a native German speaker. I’ve been visiting Thailand for 25 years, mostly traveling with my ex wife and our newborn son. During those trips, we’d spend about 3 months each winter there using a tourist visa for two months and then extending for a third month at the immigration office.
My love for Thailand grew rapidly after my first visit. It wasn’t the women that drew me in, but rather the climate, the food, the stunning nature, and the warmth of the Thai people. Back then, I would take my family to various bars, and we enjoyed the friendly atmosphere. The women there were quite open and shared many stories without pretense. My family and I spent our winters exploring southern Thailand, usually staying 3 to 8 days in one spot and it was surprisingly affordable, even in decent hotels.
After my marriage ended, I started traveling to Thailand alone. Even though I’ve been to Pattaya once, I never really fit in there. I had a strange encounter with a bar girl and decided that the bar scene wasn’t for me. I prefer the quieter islands like Koh Samui or Koh Phangan, where I can enjoy nature and a more laid back lifestyle.
While I never intended to meet anyone, it’s nearly impossible not to connect with Thai women when you’re in the country. After another breakup with a Western girlfriend, I tried dating apps, hoping to find a serious relationship. Many women claim to be looking for the same, but I quickly discovered that most are only interested in freelancing. When I’m in Thailand, I steer clear of girly bars because that’s not what I want.
I’ve chatted with a few women from dating apps, making it clear I wasn’t interested in anything casual. Some were quite bizarre asking for money just to hang out, claiming they were also looking for something serious. Eventually, I decided to focus on enjoying my time solo.
Finding Family in Southern Thailand
Then I met a pregnant Thai woman, and we started seeing each other almost daily. We kept in touch, and when I returned to Thailand, we met up again. We built a solid friendship. She introduced me to her baby son and never once asked me for money. She was like my personal tour guide, driving me around in her mom’s car, and we had an amazing time together without any romantic undertones. She was almost 15 years younger than me, and I never viewed her as a romantic partner. We visited her friends and spent time with her mother near Surat Thani.
During this period, I was still processing my thoughts and feelings, especially since my own son was already grown up. I had spent a considerable amount of time in Thailand a year prior. I’m an active person and have traveled extensively in Africa, so living simply with the locals in Thailand felt comfortable for me.
Eventually, I quit my job and spent months in Thailand with her. I covered our meals, and we enjoyed our time with her baby but she never asked for financial help. She mentioned that her child’s father was a foreigner who had abandoned them. When I returned to Europe, we stayed in touch, maintaining our friendship without any romantic involvement. She told me she missed me and felt she was falling for me, working in her mother’s laundry while caring for her son. I trusted her because I felt I knew her well despite some red flags. We would video call every day, and she was always with her mother and child.
After 8 months, she asked me for money for the first time. Her mother had an accident and needed over 60,000 baht urgently. At that point, I had already quit my job and was looking for a flight, but I hadn’t shared that with her. Unsure about what to do, I quickly booked a flight to Thailand.
When I arrived, we went straight to the hospital, where I met her mother. To my relief, she wasn’t lying. They had sold their car to cover medical expenses, but it wasn’t enough. She had no father or siblings to rely on. I willingly gave her all of my cash in euros, feeling a sense of happiness in being able to help her and her family. It may sound strange, but I was glad to see she wasn’t being dishonest and that I could assist her mother. I had some savings, so the €5,000 I provided didn’t put me in a tough spot.
During that trip, I primarily stayed at her home and the hospital, as she was dedicated to her mother and child while also managing the small laundry business. I even extended my stay for an additional month and gave her mother another €5,000 to buy a new car which she managed to purchase the very next day. It was heartwarming to see the joy in her mother’s eyes when we brought her home from the hospital.
Helping Da’s Family Through a Crisis
From that moment on, I found a new love and a new family in Thailand. I started introducing my grown son to my new family. That was about 4 years ago, and we’re all incredibly happy together.
I still need to work in Europe for a few more years, but she has visited me several times while I’ve been spending many months a year in Thailand. I’ve come to realize that Thai people live quite differently from Western people, and I’ve never had such a caring girlfriend in Europe. With an additional investment of €15,000, I was able to improve and expand their home, giving us privacy and a base when my son and I visit Thailand. We enjoy this space because it’s close to Krabi and Koh Samui, and my son is always welcome even bringing friends along. He’s become part of the family.
Since meeting Da, my life has changed for the better, and I’m glad my son enjoys this new lifestyle. I never imagined I’d find a Thai woman like Da, especially given what I’d heard about Thai ladies. When she first asked for money, I was tempted to block her immediately because it sounded like the stories I’d heard on your channel. If I hadn’t had the flexibility at work and the financial means at that time, I probably would have cut ties because I’m not the kind of guy who typically falls for women like that. Thankfully, I didn’t go that route. This was largely due to the time we spent together without any romantic expectations she shared genuine insights into Thai life with me.
I’ve saved a lot of money by being with her. Previously, when I vacationed with my son, we would spend around €5,000 a month (excluding flights). So I view the money I spent as a solid investment, and I wouldn’t hesitate to contribute more in the future if she needs it for a car or anything else.
I once envisioned my future with a Western woman who loved Thailand and would spend winters there but things have turned out differently now. I can’t see myself being with a Western woman anymore. I believe many negative stories about Thailand come from men who come across as needy, leading Thai people to view them as easy targets.
Story Four Normal Thai Girls on Tinder A Different Kind of Pattaya Experience
My story is not typical of most of the stories you read out on the channel, as it does not involve scheming bar girls or go go dancers but rather normal Thai girls. This all took place in August 2019 with two single British men who were in desperate need of adventure and self discovery. It involves me (Jim) and my best friend Gary. We are younger than most of the viewers on this channel, with me being 25 at the time and my friend 31.
I had always had a fascination with Asia and had wanted to visit Thailand since my late teens having been a reader of Stickman. For the context of this story, and to explain my emotional state at the time, I must take a moment to explain the motivation for the trip.
At the start of 2019, I had been very much in love with my English girlfriend. However, we were long distance. She worked as a professional dancer on a cruise ship and traveled the world. I used to visit her for a few weeks at a time, and one of her contracts was Southeast Asia a loop around Singapore, Cambodia, Malaysia, and Thailand. I decided to book a trip to visit her and take the cruise, getting off the ship in Phuket and Pattaya as part of the stops on the trips. I could feel the magic of Thailand and see the pretty local girls. My girlfriend was very beautiful, but I could not help but look. I had also been offered very massages that she recommended to me. I was tempted but well behaved out of loyalty to her. The beauty of these women for sure sparked something in me.
Anyway, during the last days of my visit with my girlfriend in a deluxe room at the LK President Hotel she told me she no longer wanted to be with me anymore. The breakup shattered me. I suppose it is not just Thai girls that break hearts in the city of Pattaya. The breakup badly affected me, and for months afterwards, I felt desperation. This coincided with my best friend breaking up with his girlfriend as well she treated him very badly, which fortunately my ex girlfriend did not.
We were both feeling lost and needed some fun. British girls for the most part are not appealing often embodying masculine traits that are simply not attractive to me. This made getting over my ex girlfriend difficult, as I was craving that female energy in my life once more. And there was one place I knew I could get it: Thailand.
I told my friend about the beauty of Thai women, and he was skeptical but I sold the trip to him, and not long after we were booking our flights to Bangkok. Our route was Manchester to Dubai for a stopover, and then on to Bangkok. The plan for our trip was a few days in Bangkok, a few days in Pattaya, five days or so in Koh Samui, and then back to Bangkok for one final night.
A Bangkok Tinder Adventure Begins
I had an awareness of the bar girl scene before I went, having read the popular Stickman forum. However, I have no interest in ladies of the night. I’m not judging people who do I just prefer the genuine desire that comes with mutual attraction. I like to travel to new countries to meet the local girls and get a new experience.
So to prepare for our trip, we set up Tinder profiles with our location in Bangkok and started swiping. I had the idea to set our location around an English speaking university so that the probability would be that the girls in that area (a) spoke English and (b) were interested in foreign men. This proved successful within a couple of days before leaving for Thailand, I had hundreds of matches. In the UK, I would be lucky to have a few matches a week. Therefore, you can imagine our excitement boarding the aircraft to travel the world to meet hordes of beautiful Thai women who seemed interested in us.
We arrived in Bangkok in the early evening and got a taxi to Nana, where our hotel was located. I was in awe of the neon soaked mystery of the city as our taxi crawled closer to the city center. I appreciated the exotic smelling food stalls saturating every street, and the roads were a noise tunnel of beeps and bike engines. Scantily clad beauties walked down the street like catwalk models while we excitedly nudged one another to point out the latest head turner. The anticipation was huge.
We checked into our hotel, and immediately my friend had arranged a date with a local Thai girl an engineer called Wich. The location of their meet was to be Hooters on Soi 4 a romantic date spot, as any, I suppose. We headed down and took our seats, and then a beautiful Thai girl handed over our chicken wings. A small, petite girl came over and inquired, “Are you Gary?” He looked at me, not believing his eyes. She was much better than the usual British catfishes you meet on Tinder slender and very feminine. We had a fun night as Wich showed us some local nightlife, parting with locals in Ekkamai. Gary and his new lady friend spent the next couple of days together, and I needed to find some action of my own.
I had been speaking to several girls, but none really interested me until I saw a stunner called Nal. I swiped right, and fortunately we matched. She was very pretty with raven black, long, thick hair. After exchanging a few messages, she gave me her LINE ID, and she invited me to go to Thai boxing with her and her friend later that evening. Due to the presence of her friend, it did not feel like a date but it had the potential to be one. I sent a picture of my friend hoping her friend would be interested, and I got the thumbs up from her. It seemed like it was game on.
We piled into a tuk tuk and got to the boxing stadium early in the evening. After waiting through the crowd and witnessing an Italian man being badly beaten up, we met with the girls. As a mist of blood circulated over the boxing ring (those fights are brutal), Nal was exactly as she was on her profile. Whilst her English was not perfect, it was fluent enough for a great conversation. She was a professional Thai woman in her mid 20s, working for an export company of Thai sugar. She was somewhat well traveled and had dated foreigners before. We had good fun guessing who would win the fights and working each other out, like you do on a date.
A Night of Bangkok Dates
After the fight, we went for food. At this point in the evening, it was clear Nal and I liked each other. Gary and his friend not so much. She kept on droning on about how her German boyfriend broke her heart, and my friend quickly realized it would not be his lucky night. We were then taken to Khao San Road at the girls’ recommendation for more drinks. I had never been there before, and it was full of foreigners again showing me that Nal enjoyed the company of farangs. We had drinks, and it was not long before my friend was getting upset at his lack of action. I explained to him that I had been patient when he was with Wich and that he should therefore repay the favor. We clashed a little, but he settled down afterwards. Nal’s friend then left not long after it was the three of us. We went for more food, and I made a move on Nal, kissing her as my friend ordered his date for the night a greasy kebab.
I invited Nal back to my hotel and had a wonderful night. She was very adoring and proved to be great fun. This was exactly the kind of experience I needed after my breakup a beautiful Thai girl who was interested in me. Nal left early the next morning as she had work. This seemed to be a running theme of the trip Thai women partying all night and then working the next day on next to no sleep. I was not sure how they did it.
I had promised Nal that I would see her that evening, but the problem was that I had that many girls interested in seeing me, I wanted someone new. Plus, I could tell how interested Nal was, and I was going to Pattaya the next day, so I wanted to limit the amount of time I was spending with her. That and I also liked her. I was worried about getting too attached, recognizing any romance is doomed due to the distance. However, I did not tell her we weren’t to meet. She was so sweet and kind, and I didn’t want to disappoint her and I buried my head in the sand. She messaged me, but I did not reply. I did message her to apologize a few days later because it was wrong of me, and I learned from the experience.
The girls I had lined up for that evening all let me down, so I was left with no female company. However, the next day we were leaving to go to Pattaya the location of my breakup with my English girlfriend so I had mixed feelings. It would be weird to be returning to where my world ended, but I was also feeling excited.
Pattaya and The Bar Scene Warning
My friend and I, being cheap Charlies, got the bus to Pattaya and checked into the Nova Gold Hotel. Immediately, we could sense the vibe was different to Bangkok. The place was full of massage shops and beer bars.
We went for a beer just off Walking Street and met two British guys in their 60s from Manchester our home city. In the bar, they told us how they come to Pattaya for a month every year. They were taxi drivers and worked like dogs for 11 months, and the 12th they would spend in Pattaya in the company of the bar girls. They even told us how they have one ladyboy each trip just for the novelty. This was when I knew that the bar scene is fun, but there comes a point where it becomes damaging, and these guys seemed warped from the experience. The novelty had worn off, and they needed something more extreme for their fix. This was a warning to me, and I did not want to become these guys.
They explained to my friend how the bar girl system worked with lady drinks, bar fines, and taking the girls out of the bar. They really were seasoned Pattaya visitors. They seemed to know all the girls in the bars. I was interested in the conversation but not in paying for the girls. My friend, on the other hand, was excited. This changed the trip for him, and from this day on, he pretty much got into the beer bar scene in Pattaya.
However, I was enjoying the normal Thai girl experience. I liked the fact that they were interested in me, even if it was for the novelty of a foreigner. I did not care, as I was getting genuine feelings from the girls that I dated.
Meeting Hatti The Spontaneous Adventure
I had a date on my first night in Pattaya, but she got so drunk she passed out so there was no aerobics to be had that night, and in the morning I just wanted her gone. I did not want to waste my time.
I had matched with a petite stunner called Hatti on Tinder. She was 28 she was the oldest girl I had dated at the time but looked younger. After a few messages, she asked me to meet up with her for a drink later that evening something that never happens in the UK. I told Gary that I was going to meet her. He was okay as he wanted to meet more bar girls.
Hatti assured me before meeting her that she was not a bar girl which I thought was strange, but I suppose it is a testament to how much the girly scene is woven into the fabric of culture in Pattaya that she felt the need to explain this to me.
I met her at one of the cocktail vans on Soi 13/3, and wow she was an absolute stunner. She was tiny but very pretty and had dyed her hair an auburn brown. Her English was great, and she was very playful and naughty. We enjoyed drinks and then went to Walking Street, where she showed me her dance skills. I had dated a few dancers before (due to living next to a dance school at university), but Hatti‘s moves were much better than all of the other girls. I was impressed.
Booking an Unexpected Flight
We went back to my hotel, and after her insisting on having a shower, Hatti spent the night. This was the first girl I had a sizzling connection with since my ex. However, I had a problem I was leaving for Koh Samui the next day.
Now, this is how amazing Thailand is it brings out crazy sides of your personality. Because I invited her to come with me, and I booked the plane ticket for her in about 10 minutes. I know this was silly. We had just met, and she might not have turned up plus, she could have been crazy. I did not know the girl, really. I would have never done it in the UK, but it felt right.
I did find it strange, however, how Hatti could come with me at such short notice. She had her own business selling online, and therefore she said she can work remotely so I took her word for it.
Koh Samui Living the Dream
The next day, my friend and I left for Samui. We got the bus to Bangkok, then the overnight train to Surat Thani, then the ferry. I told you we are cheap Charlies. What was interesting was Hatti messaged me asking if she could come. Would I look after her? I replied saying I would. She was tiny, so I knew it would not cost much in food and drinks. Again, this is something I would normally not do but she told me she earned $200 to $300 a month doing her job, and I earn comfortably 10 to 15 times that each month, so I did not mind footing the bill too much. She was to be my entertainment, and I was not sure I would find a girl like Hatti on the island.
We got to Koh Samui and checked into our hotel on Chaweng Beach. Koh Samui is stunning, and I highly recommend it. I then waited for Hatti to arrive. I waited at the bottom of my hotel, and then a taxi appears and out pops Hatti with sunglasses on, looking like a movie star. We christened the room and then went for food, whilst my friend went looking for a bar girl for the night.
We later met him, and it was great fun seeing him in action with the bar girls identifying the ones he wanted, seeing him lose repeatedly at Connect 4, and then negotiating a price. This was all the entertainment Hatti and I needed.
The next few days were a pattern of sightseeing, riding the motorbike I rented, eating in Koh Samui‘s seafood restaurants, and enjoying each other’s company. It was truly a fantastic time with her and eventually, it came to an end. However, I was relieved when she was leaving. I had still not recovered from my breakup and was fatigued from spending too much time with her.
Life on Koh Samui
My friend enjoyed many bar girls while on the island, and we joked to one another that we had two different experiences. He loved the variation and control he had in terms of seeing the girls, whilst I enjoyed the girlfriend experience with my “normal” Thai girl. We did debate if Hatti was at least a part time bar girl due to her calling it out on Tinder before we met, her open availability, and the fact that she asked for me to look after her. But I do not think she was.
I think a lot of these girls who date foreigners enjoy the farang company for however many days he looks after them and maybe gives them money but when he goes, they move on to the next one. It is an interesting lifestyle where they leverage their youth and beauty for fun, escaping from their often impoverished world. A farang with a few baht in his pocket can give them a great experience.
What worries me, however, is what is the future for girls who live this lifestyle? On their social media, it is all foreign men who they interact with. Hatti told me that with the average Thai man, she would not be considered desirable due to her lifestyle.
What I would say about Hatti, however, is that she never asked for money, gifts, or anything stupidly expensive. She was happy with the food and drink I bought her and the experience of being with me.
Bangkok One Final Night
When Koh Samui was over, we went back to Bangkok for one more night before our trip home. My friend had a date lined up from Tinder, so I decided to shoot a new message to Wich. She forgave me for my poor behavior and agreed to come to dinner with me. We had a fun night wandering the dark streets of Bangkok, eating and drinking. We then met up with my friend in Nana Plaza our first time hanging out there. Amazingly, his date was the one who recommended it and was not complaining. It was a fun place to be.
We then went back to our hotel with the girls and felt like kings, with a beauty on our arms one incredible night to end the trip. We had both had a tough year, and this was the ultimate way to cap it off. I felt like we banished some demons of our past, and it showed me there was a life after a horrible breakup. I can see why the impression of a lonely, depressed man who goes to Thailand exists it is paradise for broken men who need adventure in their life.
The main motivation for me to write this story was to point out that you can have a great time with normal Thai girls. A lot of the content on YouTube is all about bar girls and go gos and fair enough if you’re into that but you can have a great experience with locals without paying for it too. Sure, it might be a bit more effort, but it is worth it. I have nothing but good things to say about the girls I spent time with they were beautiful and wanted to look after me when I was with them, like I was their boyfriend. It is a very difficult experience being with a Western woman, and I thank these girls for such a great time and wish them a wonderful life.
Since returning to the UK, I have occasionally messaged these girls but sometimes it is best to just move on, ensuring the amazing memories you shared with someone are not spoiled and remain a fun experience in your mind. I look forward to visiting Thailand again and look forward to another odyssey in the Land of Smiles.
