Going To Thailand To Meet Ladyboys

I’m what some people would call a down-low, not-straight person, since I am strictly attracted to trans women, or ladyboys, as they’re famously referred to in Thailand, but I’m not attracted to men or feminine men at all. It is very hard to describe.

I am 21 years old and from London, and nobody there knows that I am attracted to transgender women. They don’t even know that my current girlfriend in London is transgender. That’s how good she looks.

I got rich from crypto. I got lucky with Luna and lost a lot after the crash, but I sold more than 30% when it peaked, and I entered when it cost close to nothing anyway.

I graduated university and went straight to any ladyboy lover’s dreamland, Thailand.

My girlfriend was understandably angry at me for just upping and leaving with no return ticket booked or reason for going, but I didn’t care. I love her, but I don’t see her as a viable long-term partner.

Venturing To Thailand To Meet Transgender Thai Girls

The only reason I haven’t broken up with her yet is because I’m worried about what she would do if I did. I feel like I’m trapped in this relationship. Part of the reason for going to Thailand was to get as far away from her as possible.

As soon as I landed at 11:45 p.m., I got out of the airport quickly due to my ticket being first class, booked my hotel close to Nana Plaza (as I heard this was the best place to find ladyboys), showered and hit the strip by 1:30 a.m., and I was blown away by the beauty I saw.

I thought my girlfriend looked good, but the ladyboys here were on another level. When you date trans girls, you learn to clock when another girl is trans very easily, so I knew exactly which girls were ladyboys and which weren’t. Most of the ladyboys looked better than the ladies, maybe just my preference.

My First Night With a Thai Ladyboy

I sat down at a bar and had a few beers when I saw a stunner walking past. I flagged her down, and she sat down with me. Her English wasn’t the best, and my Thai was non-existent, as I’d just landed a few hours ago, but I got straight to the point.

Once we agreed, she told me that she rode a moped and that she’d ride us back to my hotel, which was around five minutes away.

The whole ride back, I was teasing her and she was loving it. She said she’d never been with a Black man before, and she, like all of the other ladies, was fascinated with my hair, always touching it.

Spending The Night With The First Thai Girl I Met

When she woke up, I asked her to leave since my girlfriend was requesting to FaceTime me.

She took the money, threw it on my dressing table, and got back in the bed.

This girl and I were very compatible, which I think a lot more people need to realise is very important for a relationship.

Fast-forward three days, she was pretty much living with me. We would order Grab, smoke, and we even had fun at the hotel pool and in the gym.

Falling Out Of Love With My Girlfriend Back Home

I believe I fell out of love with my girlfriend during this period, but I wasn’t in love with this girl. She was just a breath of fresh air from my always nagging girlfriend.

I was going to Hong Kong in two days, and when I told Alita (My Thai ladyboy’s name) that I was going, she started crying, not bawling, but with tears while she was asking me why and if she would get to see me again.

I told her that I’d be back in a couple of days, since I only booked the Hong Kong ticket because I thought that you needed a return ticket to enter Thailand. If you’re a British passport holder, I guess they don’t really care.

Flying To Hong Kong With My Ladyboy Girlfriend

The day before I was supposed to fly to Hong Kong, my girlfriend in London and I had an argument, so I said, “What the hell?” and asked Alita if she wanted to come with me to Hong Kong, and she was so excited and said yes.

Alita is 23 and I am 21, but she is like half my size.

I had a first-class ticket to Hong Kong, so I booked Alita the same one next to me.

We went to Hong Kong for five days and had a great time. Alita hit me with “I love you”, but I didn’t say it back because I don’t love her. I just fell out of love with my girlfriend back home.

We flew back to Thailand three weeks ago and we’ve been living in Pattaya since.

One of my friends lives in Pattaya. He’s a game developer who works remotely. He found me a two-bedroom apartment with a big balcony for £900 a month, and I took it.

Trying To Break Up With My Girlfriend Back Home

When my girlfriend back home would call me, I’d just make an excuse after five minutes to end the call, give her less attention, and hope that she’d take the hint.

Not nice, but it was a lose-lose for me. If I broke up with her, she could ruin me in so many ways if she was too angry, so the only way was to get her to end it with me.

I gave Alita an American Express under my account, so whatever she needs, she can buy. She spends barely anything.

Making It Clear I Want To Have Fun With Others

She seemed okay with the arrangement but got angry when I came back at 10 a.m. the next day because she knew what I’d been up to.

I’ve met Alita’s parents and even gave them 20k baht since I’ve heard that in Thai culture, that’s what they do. They didn’t even ask me and were surprised.

Alita and I are flying to London next week because her visa just got approved. I still haven’t broken up with my current girlfriend, and Alita knows this. She’s just convinced that I’ll pick her over my girlfriend, which is most likely what I’m going to do.

I’m only going back to London to see family for a few days. I’m not trying to be in that gloomy place for too long. Then I am coming straight back to Pattaya.

I prefer Pattaya over Bangkok. It’s more peaceful, and I prefer the ladyboys.

Thailand is the only place I can freely be myself and I love it.