Thai Girl Lied Her Way To My Heart

This is my story about falling in love with a beautiful Thai girl.

I met Tip when I was stationed in the Middle East.

I had been away from home for over a year and was lonely.

It was in the beginning stages of covid, so all bars and restaurants were shut down.

I went to a friends house party, as that was the only thing to do.

He was in a long term relationship with a Thai woman, and she always had a lot of her friends over at the house.

Meeting My Future Thai Girlfriend Named Tipp

The first night I met Tipp I was instantly attracted to her.

We made eye contact and smiled from across the room.

I was playing a card game called Khang with some of the other girls, and Tipp came over to help me understand the game.

She helped me learn the game, and when it was late I got up and called an Uber to go home.

 I was standing waiting for the Uber to come and Tipp patted the seat at the table next to hear wanting me to come sit by her again.

I told her I had to go, and my Uber was coming, and promptly left.

Later that week my friend told me that Tipp was upset that I did not take her home with me.

A few weeks later I went back to my friends house and Tipp was there again.

The Flirting Begins…

We again played cards, but this time the flirting was more serious and I was placing my hand on her thigh and she was touching me also.

That night I took her home with me and that is when I fell for her.

We had a wonderful night and she stayed the next day with me and that night too.

We talked and learned about each other, and she told me she worked in a bakery, making desserts for a local hotel.

She began staying with me most every night of the week.

She would spend the night and I would drop her at her place when I went to work in the morning.

A Couple of Red Flags Showing

I started to pay attention to her schedule, and she would sometimes work into the evenings, and come over later in the night.

 Some times I would already be in bed when she would come over, and she would just join me. I did not think much of this though.

After about a month she told me she needed to go work in a hotel and would be gone for a few days.

I asked if she was helping in the restaurant there, and she told me she was going to do lady work.

I did not fully understand this, as I was a bit naive, but when I realized what she was doing for work I stopped seeing her.

But I always thought about her and missed her very much.

 After about 3 weeks of not seeing her I invited her back to my place and we resumed our relationship.

Getting Back With My Thai Girlfriend

I came to terms with her work, and honestly work was very slow for her since covid was at it’s peak now.

After being with her for about 6 months it was time for me to rotate back to the states, and I had to leave her.

My last weekend with her was amazing and we both cried when I went to the airport, we had fallen in love.

After being at home it wasn’t long before she started to ask me to send money.

Which I did for about 3 months.

It wasn’t long before I felt taken advantage of so I stopped sending the money and we stopped talking all together.

About a year later I saw a social media post that she was in the hospital so I reached out to her to see if she was ok.

Reaching Out To My Ex After A Year

We began talking again and there was never a mention of money, so I felt we were genuinely in love.

We talked for about 8 months like this when I had the opportunity to go back to Bahrain for work.

I would be there for a little over 30 days and she greeted me at the airport with flowers.

She spent the whole time with me in my hotel and we lived as a married couple.  it was amazing.

We made plans for me to retire the service in about a year and we would go to Thailand and live off of my retirement.

We also decided on a salary that I would provide her until then.

This was great for about 3 months after I returned home, and then it all fell apart like a house of cards, or maybe lies I should say.

One day i received a random message from someone I didn’t know.

 I was curious so I responded to it.

My Thai Girlfriend Already Had A Boyfriend

It was from her boyfriend, and he sent me pictures of the 2 of them together, as well as pictures of him in her room with her.

She was taking the money I was sending her and paying for an apartment with her boyfriend, as well as food and utilities.

I confronted her about this and she immediately lied about it.

I sent her the pictures and she claimed it was work and he was a customer.

I did not believe this and broke things off immediately.

Even though this experience had a bad ending, there were so many positives that came out of the relationship.

 I still would like to retire in Thailand and will still try to find a beautiful Thai woman to live out my life with.